There is no situation where 95% of the relationship isn't unified and acceptable to everyone. Problems arise when to much of the relationship's time is spent negatively focusing on the 5%. Whether that is through open communication, or personal thoughts.
I help people bring their thoughts about a relationship or situation, into the proper perspective. At which point a decision can be made about which path to take. However, that decision can be made from a perspective of peace and conviction, not frustration.